Har ek friend zaroori hota hai

One thing I don't regret about is to share my life with a lot of cute friends. Friends are the sweetest thing that happened to me and I dare not lose them for anything. Today being a Sunday, I tried to catch up with some of my friends and trust me 24 hours just isn't enough. I realized the number of days I kept myself busy and not talking to these lovely souls. Everyday I have been thinking to call or text her/him but end up being too tired or bored to catch up. Today I realized talking to your old friends gives you so much happiness and an opportunity to relive your past moments. However old u grow, how many ever jobs u hold, how much ever busy u are, just clear your schedule for your close ones. Cos you never know the wonder they can give to your life and space.

Life seems so complete being around your best friends. They simply change the way you live. They can understand u so well that you never need to act being perfect with them. My close buddies from school/college can read my heart so well that most of the times I need not tell it aloud. They will do anything for me without expecting anything from return. I love the way they feel my problems as their own and try to solve them. They are always there to lend me their shoulders when I am in pain, ready to party when I am happy, give me advice like my parents when I go wrong and finally, make me live every moment in my life. Not to forget the numerous fights and arguments, childish teasing and petty lies, I owe them everything in my life.

I am lucky to have all kinds of friends. Some very possessive, some so caring and affectionate, some don't show they care, some act weird, some disappear and reappear after a few years,some call everyday but have nothing to talk and some just don't find time to catch up and live with just the memories. Need every kind of friend in your life :) (Har ek friend zaroori hota hai).

I should say, I am just blessed to have them in my life! And no matter what happens I would never lose them. Love you guys! You mean a lot to me! :)

Life isn't easy folks!

It has been quite a while since I blogged or wrote something on a public page, so I thought of starting all over again and this time without a break! I have always loved to express my thoughts all over my life and these very thoughts keep me alive and kicking. 24 years of this crazy life has taught me a lot of different things. To love, hate, achieve, lose, fight, compete, sacrifice, adjust and a lot lot more, all of which help you to grow sane. One more thing about life is, it isn't too easy to just give up and move on. Moving on is good sometimes but not when you truely love it and when all your happiness lies in it.

Its never too wise to give up something you really yearn for or give up becoming someone you would love to become some day. You need to fight for it so hard that when the victory is finally yours, you will have to feel the victory as if it was meant to be yours all the way. Self confidence is all you need to achieve something in your life. You need to wait for the right time and opportunity to finally meet your dream and that day would be very special. So, just be patient!

Never give up! Cos if you do give up easily,u will not be able to justify yourself after ten years from now and there will be no more time left to do the damage control. When you cant identify your passion or your interest in life, Congratulations! Your life has just begun to become meaningless and motiveless.

Making the long story short, just do not give up your dreams for anything. If you think you are fighting too hard and yet an inch less to succeed, you are not fighting hard enough to earn it. Live your life with dreams and just yours. Don't burden your life living other's lives in it.

Work harder, gain larger! Rest in the next....

Ambition versus Happiness!

I know this is a very weird and a controversial topic to pick on, but still I wanted to pin down my thoughts because I have been debating on it within myself for quite sometime now!

As we grow up in life, our much wider thoughts narrow down to having a great job paying us a 7 digit salary and earning more knowledge to widen our chances in today’s industry! For this purpose, we go around the whole world leaving behind our friends and family and drive ourselves into the feeling of loneliness when we really know this is not what we really are! Apart from knowin it, the only reason we put ourself into this complicated position (where neither we are happy nor our family members and frens) is because of that crazy ambition we had in our minds rite from childhood.

Does this ambition bring us real happiness ? The answer may vary from person to person. But whole heartedly, 90% of the people facing this position fake their happiness just to give them inner encouragement to go on with their hell studded life. Just to make themselves feel happier, they go out for parties, mingle with everyone they see, try to find peace in what they do. Why do you think people work so hard day and nite for a project they don kno were its really goin to? Moreover, completely stress out themselves in the name of coding? One for the huge amt of money company is investing on them, two, to make their resume attractive for the next employee, three, to go onsite for the project.

How many times in your life have you thought about the wonderful childhood you had wit ur parents, neighbors and relatives? How much we enjoyed eating our mom’s food, fighting wit our siblings, playing with our frens. Is that called heaven? Now we suffer with no proper food, live with all unknown people, living the toughest life not knowing why.

I don come to say your ambition kills al ur happiness. I jus want to pin point the crazy amount of people who sacrifice their happiness jus to gain money and power. We may love the job but not at the cost of our personal happiness and satisfaction. This will kill ourselves in the course of time.

I personally think we should be happy with what we have and what god has given us. Never try to pursue something others are doing. Live your life as your heart says and make the best out of ur life!!

Never before did i feel so great about life!

Never before have I thought about being a part of this beautiful world..Never before have I thought about the 'greatness' of life..Never before have i had a little time to stare at the stars and say "WOW! I am covered by a huge sparkling jacket"...Never before have i thought about thanking God for his wonderful creations...

Today, I surprisingly feel like doing all of them...But why this sudden change in me??Why do i feel like doing something i never even thought of before??

Because,today is the day I held a newly born baby girl in my own hands.Oh yes! my sister has given birth to a cute little angel today morning.She was so very beautiful and weighed around 3kgs. She was in my hands as soon as the surgery was over.That was truly a wonderful feel.Looking at her pink body, i forgot all the happenings around me and i looked at her so close as though it were only me and her in the whole world.She neither turned nor stirred for quite some time, and all she did was to stay still on my hands as if i had petrified her.I touched her slender hands and legs which was so sponge soft.Her chubby round face would mesmerize anyone who looks at her.I never let go off her until the doctor made me do so.Once she went away from me,the first thought which struck my mind was,

'God! You are a wonderful creator.You made mankind so pure and so gentle'.

I felt the kind of happiness i have never felt before.And today has become an unforgettable day in my life!!